Tonet's Daily Playlist requires a Flash Plugin Spontaneity Turns Me On
By tonet on Aug 5, 2007 in Life and Experience
Why do I like people who are spontaneous?
* They make you relax
* It’s because they’re funny
* It’s because they seem honest; like they’re not hiding anything
Whatever the reason, people who can “be themselves” socially often seem more attractive and fun to be with. Someone you’d want to be your friend. And what’s more, you can be sure they’re really enjoying socializing too.
But just what is ’spontaneity’? What does it mean to “be yourself”? When you are being very self conscious socially, you are:
* Consciously monitoring everything you say
* More anxious
* More aware of yourself
So, when I’m feeling spontaneous, I feel more relaxed and I’m aware more of others than myself. It’s like allowing your communication to flow and you trust yourself.
And this last point is really the most important. The ability to trust yourself allows you to relax and really enjoy social situations, without having to watch everything you say, guessing how others will react, and whether it is funny or not.
Be yourself and so attract others who like “the real you.”
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yup, each of us do have our own “target markets”.
wely | Aug 6, 2007 | Reply